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You will never find your worth in another human being.

Let that shit sink in. When you concentrate on being the best version of you, the right people will naturally gravitate towards you. Looking to please others and placing other's opinions on a pedistal will not do you any favours.

I try to keep this in the back of my mind- I am totally guilty of taking things personally too often. It's hard to remember people's opinions are completely out of my control and are entirely constructs of their own experiences. They have nothing to do with me. But it's very hard.

When you think about it, you can't really take something personally that doesn't even have anything to do with you, can you? It's said too often that when someone doesn't like you, it is because they see a certain quality in you that they do not like about themselves.

"You will never find your worth in 

another human being"

Opinions other than your own- even positive ones should be kept at a length. Your confidence should not be based on these. That should come from you.

Take a moment to think about the people you like being around and the qualities they exhibit. Are they interesting because they started a sweet side business or maybe they actively promote something? Do they always seem busy on weeknights and weekends, rather than at the pub drinking their money away or constantly on social media? Did you meet them at an event or through another close friend? They are probably cool people because the answers to the above came easily.

These people are focusing on themselves rather than what others may think about them. It's attractive; hence why you want to be around them! Case in point? You do you, honey.

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x pinchee

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